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(Popularity Rate: 78 ) Are sex toys medically approved?
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I have no idea how many sex toys I own specifically. I bought my first sex toys way back in 2009, right after my first BDSM party. I bought a ball gag, a paddle, some nipples clamps with a clit clamp attachment, some leather ankle and wrist cuffs, and some rope. I was more going on what I thought was checklist of things I should get rather than what I like.
Over the years, I’ve collected and got rid of numerous sex toys. I still have all of that original collection, but I don’t really use some of them. Ball gags I realized I don’t really like except for special occasions and I’m not into clit torture at all, so I tend to just use the nipple parts.
In late 2017, right before a move, my partner and I collected all of our toys and laid them out and took a picture. Here’s the picture:
As you can see, my collection is dominated (pun intended) by knives and rope. The glass butt plug collection was hers. You can see the green ball gag there, along with the nipple claims and the big wooden paddle with the stripes in it that was part of my original collection. A lot of my collection are “kinkables”: regular items that have been turned into sex toys. One of the paddles is broken and it keeps breaking no matter how many times I glue it back together. I guess thin cherry wood just doesn’t make for a great paddle, especially on heavy bottoms.
When it comes to vibrators, they come and go quickly and I’ve owned dozens over the years. I used to buy cheap bullet vibes in sets of 5–10 and give them to my friends who expressed an interest in trying them. I have owned 3 hitachi magic wands over the years along with some attachments (see below) but I had one burn out and the other two I gave away to ex-partners when we broke up. That’s another thing; if I buy a vibrator and use it almost exclusively on a single partner for a long period of time, I basically bond that vibrator to her and she gets to keep it if we break up. Of my last three partners, two of them didn’t like vibrators and the other one had her own Hitachi and so I just used hers, so I haven’t actually purchased one in awhile. If I get a partner who really likes the style of a Hitachi vibrator and doesn’t own one, I’ll probably get
(Popularity Rate: 42 ) What is the best site for a love doll in Japan working in 2022 or having real experience?
nking with the customers, with a counter, 3 boxes and a karaoke room.
Yes, I worked there on weekends from 2011 to 2013. I had no prior experience in this kind of job and was the only foreigner there, but probably because the mama was a friend of a friend of mine, and a male (gay) friend was working as « boy » there at the beginning, she accepted to hire me.
The place was open from 8pm to 1am. We had a time card and were payed exactly for the time worked. (I was paid ¥2000 / hour). Sometimes, when the place was not busy, the mama would ask some girls to leave earlier.
We had to wear dresses. But we could choose to wear our own casual dresses or real hostess dresses from the bar’s closet. For some special occasions, like the bar anniversary, we had to wear the hostess dresses (or kimonos). To me it felt like being disguised for a carnival ! And sometimes we also had to wear a yukata (during Tokasan matsuri in June).
We could choose a nickname or use our real name. I found it fun to choose a nickname so that’s what I did. I chose Lily. And the mama printed business cards with my name on it. We had to give our business card to every new customer.
Now what was the job like exactly ?
When new customers would come in we had to say « Irrasshaimase! » loudly. The mama would call some girls. The number of girls depended on the number of customers, and she would choose the girls who were available at that moment, those who were already familiar with them, those whom she thought would suit the customers’ tastes (conversation skills, personality, age, physical traits maybe). Sometimes she would swap girls from one table to another. The mama was also spending a little bit of time with each group of customers.
If there were enough girls available, other girls would prepare the table : with coasters, glasses, ice cubes, and charms (little plates with snacks), take the customers jackets and suitcases, and give them a hot oshibori (wet towel). Small Breast Sex DollOnce seated at the table, we would serve them drinks, light their cigarettes, remove the mist on their glasses regularly, change the ashtrays once there were more than a specific number of cigarette butts in it, and talk with them, sing with them if we were in the karaoke. We could accept their drinks or even ask for it, and when saying kampai we had to take our glass with two hands, lean our glasses lower than theirs and say « itadakimasu! ». We were not allowed to smoke in front of the customers, and not allowed to cross our legs. We also had to be careful our back is straight.
When girls were not busy, some would stay in the small kitchen and bring drinks, wash and wipe the glasses, prepare charms, call the food, beverage, cigarette delivery when customers had specific requests: like fresh fruits for example. Some would call regular customers. Some would go to dinner with them before the night (that’s called « dohan », and I’m happy I’ve never been asked to do that, nor to come earlier to clean the place, gaijin privilege or just because she knew I was working on daytime too ? I don’t know).
When customers would leave the place, some girls and the mama would accompany them until the front of the building and we would have to bow until they’re out of our sight.
What kind of customers ?
Mostly salarymen, sometimes construction workers, big bosses, from their twenties to more than 80! And more surprisingly, sometimes we would have big groups of Buddhist monks! And they were absolutely not the most well-behaved. They would always try to touch the girls’ butts. I even once witnessed one putting his pants on his ankles, putting a inari-zushi on the tip of his… you know, and ask cheerfully « Who wants to eat an inari-zushi on the stick ? ».
Yeah, even if it has been fun a few times and I have had some good conversations and laughs, most of these conversations were really depressing, infuriating, and vulgar. That was the period of my life in Japan I hated Japanese and men the most because of these conversations full of sexism, and prejudices about girls, foreign countries and foreigners.
I was always asked the same questions full of biases and misconceptions. (Now I don’t work their anymore, everything’s OK. I go out a lot, know a lot of people and meet a lot of others, and I rarely find these kinds of people in Japan).
You probably wonder how the customers behaved with us ?
Some girls didn’t mind the customers touching their legs, or acting sexy and flirty, but it was not an obligation at all. I’ve never let any customer touch me. Sometimes they wanted us to put food in their mouth, or they wanted to put it in ours. I’ve never really understood what was the symbolism of this gesture and why they loved that so much but the girls and the customers were often doing that.
What kind of girls worked there ?
Pretty cool girls actually (we were all getting along very well, and with the mama who is only 1 year older than me too), mostly in their 30’s (except one or two in their 20’s) and mostly selected because they were fun and had good conversation skills, not specially beautiful, two of them were a little chubby. I’ve heard many customers saying they liked this place for the good conversations they could have. Only one, the youngest one, 19y.o at the time, was wearing the hostess dress and had an hostess hair-cut, and behaved a bit like a burikko (cute but not very clever attitude).
Some were working full-time, but most had a regular job beside. One, who still works there, was lying to her husband, pretending she was working in an izakya. One of my very good friends, who is yoga instructor and owner of her own yoga studio, would work their sometimes too.
I used to work one Friday and Saturday the first year, and only on Friday the second year, as I started to hate it so much and I was really happy to quit when I found a new job with a better pay. (Actually I didn’t only do it to earn more money, but because I thought h
(Popularity Rate: 64 ) Where can I get sex toys in Raipur?
tries (in our case let’s take India )it’s not quite easy even tho you are jaw dropping hot or you have a girlfriend… Pre marriage sex is still a huge taboo and if found out it could cause a huge trouble for both parties sadly…
It’s weird how sex is a natural part of our culture as well as humanity as a whole and these religious moral parents patrol agaisnt consensual sex and stuff but they can’t raise a voice against rape and pedophilia which is quite rampant here…
Coming back to the point…
The only solution we youngsters have is take the risk of ruining a girls life and having sex with her and if got caught either you gotta marry her or if you dont her parents and judgmental hypocritical society will shame the hell outta her until she commits suicide..
Or if your rich you can visit a prostitute who probably uses vaseline as a lube and uses age old torn condoms and may give you HIV… STDs and herpes and similar stuff… And I use the word prostitute here because I dint think they are doing a consensual sex work but rather blackmailed or forced into it by someone… So even if I have the money and I really wanna break the virginity title I wouldn’t visit one…
Which basically comes down to options like masturbation… Phone sex (still unsafe because you know the govt and telecoms dgaf about our privacy)..
So sex toys are also banned from import eventho there is no strict islamic kind of laws here… also not available quality sex toy manufacturers here as well.. probably scammers with kids toys looking like dildos and stuff…
So home made sex toys are the option here…
In many other countries like Japan sex toys are the thaaaang! The real Deal..
Why people who have access to it stick to sex toys
Because varieties like anal and fast double penetration are not really applicable to a real female counterpart unless she is a overly loved pornstar… With a lot of experience and Streachablility… Also most are hesitant and shy about anal and similar taboo stuff.. which is also the
(Popularity Rate: 15 ) Is it ok to get a sex doll? Saw a documentary about this man who lives with one as his wife. (Talking about the super expensive silicon ones)
Men going their own way to enjoy life. There are always groups have their own ideas about sex dolls: 6YE DollShe is my type…A sex doll means a lot to me. • r/MGTOW
Here are some voices from Reddit. enjoy!
(Popularity Rate: 68 ) Why did Yori Tolochko from Kazakhstan marry a sex doll?
l cringe. Eventually SOMEONE will find it, perhaps after your death… is that how you want to be remembered? As a joke snickered about at family gatherings? Your old ass pounding away at a 3D cartoon toy? Kinda gross, dude. Wouldn’t it be hilarious if you had a stroke or cardiac arrest while pounding away at that creepy thing? One of the paramedics would sneak a photo and upload it to 4chan making you famous.
How much does your wife love you? How undeestanding is she? If you are taking care of her so she wants for nothing, and she is “too ill” to even suck your cock once a month, then you are ethically and morally permitted to take a mistress. That is a no-brainer right there.
The only rule pertaining to a mistress is that your wife and family never be disrespected due to this. Your wife always needs to come first. Your mistress must never speak ill of her. You should avoid appearing in public with your mistress in places where friends of your wife might spot you and spread hurtful rumors. And above all, do not write a short term mistress into your Will to the detriment of your children.
You are entitled to a mistress. If you think your wife would be understanding, perhaps you could arrange for her to become your wife’s caretaker and friend. If you think your wife would not be okay with it, she must be protected from this knowledge and must not question where you go when you leave or be told fibs for her own good… just never be selfish and indulge in overnight stays because that is just too suspicious.
It is okay. You are allowed to do good japanese sex this. It is not wrong in any way. But for your own protection be sure to choose someone close to your age who you know to be discreet and trustworthy. Statistically, if you select a much younger woman, particularly one not well known to you, especially if she is a 1st generation immigrant, you are gonna have a bad day: lies, demands for money, theft, identity theft, harassment, blackmail, extortion, physical abuse, even murder of yourself and your wife… there are many women who claim to be looking for a “sugar daddy” when they are actually a black widow intent on taking everything you have through whatever means necessary.
You do not need or want a 20 year old gymnast who looks like a model… she actually HATES you and loves meth.
(Popularity Rate: 35 ) Does a narcissist ever have respect (begrudgingly or not) when their supply shuts them down, and doesn’t come back? Or does it make them try harder?
ow beyond that, and good japanese sex any attempts will lead to them setting you up for a lose/lose scenario so they can “prove” in some screwed up way that they are the reason you can do well. In their minds its better to see you suffering then not feeding into their psychological games.
I struggle with MPD/DID a coping mechanism i had to develop at a young age to help me deal with how the narcs in my life effected my family.
I developed a fear of success even when it came to me easily, i would stop just before achieving so i can save their egos, I was asked to quit jobs, give up homes, and put my family into a very bad predicament because of the influence a narc would put me through. They will even promise a change in life offering different jobs/properties whatever they think they can afford, as bait. One thing, which leads to 2, then 3, next thing you realize is it is causing you to feed into them once again. It had caused me to spend my savings i had for my child’s college, or a home i was ready to purchase to help them as they played the “im a victim” card.
I care, so i tried a 3rd time… but once I ran out of money, they had me exactly where they wanted me, demanding me not to work, but instead sitting around the house with them so they can just feed off of me.
If you grow beyond that, They will make every attempt to revert you back to an age or mental state of when you were feeding.
Narcs need to be left alone, especially from young impressionable minds, they will do everything in their power to make themselves seem great because childre